Many people are curious about threesome and many of them have tried to have a threesome hookup or couple dating. Is your threesome good or bad? If it is good, congratulations! You may don’t have to read this. If it is not so good or if you haven’t had one, you can read this article, which I am going to talk about some tips and advice for a safe and nice threesome hookup. I am sure you will find them very helpful.
Safe comes first. Before you start, talk about protection and healthy issues. Make sure everyone is clean from any STD and please please please use condom before you regret it. If there is one man and two ladies, do not engage in switching penetration from one person to another unless you change condom one at a time. This is not healthy nor safe. I am sure they won't feel bad about it because it is for their own good. This is a common and a must requirement in any threesome hookup and swinger lifestyle. Get used to it if you are going to have another in the future.
If you want to have some drink, just invite them all to have a dinner together. Have some lite food. Do not drink too much. No one wants to share a pillow with a smelly drunker. Take some time to chat and make connection. Have some relaxing conversation. It is lower the guard and build up intimacy. Ask how their life going, their hobbies and sexual experience. Get to know each other. Also, tell each other your expectations and see if they can help you realize your fantasy. Do not cross the boundaries set by you and your partner. When she said no oral between you and the third, do not require the third to give oral to you. Talk about boundaries with the third. There are some things you might feel very comfortable about, while the third doesn't.
After care. When I was single, I was invited to a lot of threesomes on swinger app
. I like being a unicorn, but I also like after care. If the couple is not able to provide it, I have to say no. Therefore, I said lots of "no". This is what I need and I require, even if as a unicorn. I want to feel being loved and appreciated. Some girls might want me to have a threesome hookup with them in their house, but they also want me to dress up and leave as soon as it ends.
If you can't feel chemistry and emotion in your threesome, my suggestion is love the unicorn and do not make them leave after everything is done. Hug each other and make her a tea. Talk about sexual experiences and feedback for each other. You can let her stay over or spend some time together before she leaves.